What if?

What if?  What if you were able to achieve those dreams and desires you have inside you?

I am here to tell you that you can.  It isn't a matter of what if.....it's a matter of when. It's a matter of making hard decisions. It's a matter of focusing, setting goals, working toward them, being patient, and, allowing yourself the freedom of making decisions for yourself and those around you that you really want to make.

I have doubt, we all do. It's what we do with that doubt that matters most. I used to let my doubt control my world. I would stay in in-action and allow the doubt to consume me. I have learned skills to take deliberate actions to shove the doubt aside.  Having positive morning routines has been a massive step in the right direction.  Getting up at the same time seven days a week.  Making my bed, opening the blinds/curtains, and going on a morning walk.  Not just some days, but every day. I can tell you it didn't start this way.  Baby steps comes to mind. Once a week, then a couple times a week, now everyday. Be willing to take steps in the right direction.

STOP discounting the progress you are making. Change in any area our lives takes time. If we are wanting improve our physical health it will take time.....give yourself credit for the progress you are making and delete any messaging to the contrary.  If you are wanting to change your relationship with alcohol or drugs do what works for you and improves your life.  Recovery in this area is not a one stop shop and there are many ways to address your relationship with alcohol and drugs. If you want to improve your career options know that it will take time and effort. Be willing to start somewhere knowing it will eventually lead you to where you want to go.  STOP taking in any negative messaging from external sources.  YOU have a say in all of this.   YOU CAN make a choice to ensure your world is a better place today, tomorrow, and forever.

Know that life never going to perfect. There is no one point you will get to where you will be able to say all is well and I am good.  Life WILL throw you curves along the way.  One of my favorite sayings "You can't control the wind, but you can learn to adjust your sails" - unknown author. This is so true of life. Years ago I quit chasing happiness or the perfect life scenario.  That is a highly unrealistic goal to have.  I take each day as it comes.  I enjoy the good times and I manage through the bad times.  If I am taking care of my self physically and emotionally I will be in a much better position to handle either.

YOU are capable of amazing things. It's as simple as that. Will the goal or dream you want to achieve be easy to attain?  I don't know.  The only way either of us will know is if you put forth effort to achieve it.  And here is the real tricky thing.  At the end, the goal or dream you set out to achieve may end up looking completely different than you originally intended.  I say I am living in a dream world.....truly I am.  I live a fortunate life.  Yet, if you would have asked me if my dream world would be living in Ellensburg and teaching at CWU 20 years ago, I would have said no.   I had a much different plan.  Yet, here I am living in my dream world. 

Last, never be done.  Strive to do good in your world always. I have short and long term goals. I adjust them as they are completed and change as necessary. Short term, 1-2 yrs, long term 5-10 yrs. These keep me moving forward.   I believe in you.   But, the key is, for you to believe in yourself.  You CAN do this.  You CAN achieve amazing things.

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